Our Voice, Ears, Words Determine Our Destination
Wouldn’t multiple sets of ethics skew our perspective?
The well-known leadership expert/speaker/author, John C. Maxwell, was asked by a colleague what his thoughts were on business ethics.
Without hesitation, Mr. Maxwell said, “There is no such thing as business ethics!”
Now, before being dismissive, realize Mr. Maxwell has sold more than 13 million books worldwide and his organizations have trained more than 2 million leaders worldwide.
I believe he knows a few things about what he shares…
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The Base Principle of Ethics
Given Mr. Maxwell is considered a well learned man and speaker in ethics, faith, philosophy, and psychology, his answer caught his colleague off-guard.
In truth, his colleague — as well as many of us upon hearing this story — was expecting an entirely different answer.
When asked to explain his reasoning, the simplicity of John’s wisdom became apparent.
the result of
planned, conditioned behavior and
thoughts that are true
If you need to keep remembering what set of behaviors and thoughts you should be displaying and when…
If you need to keep remembering which set of ethics to use for your family, your friends, your work place, in any process of negotiations…
Then how can you say you are truly being honest with yourself – and with those in your relationships?
This breaks the base principle of ethics:
Be true to yourself…
Pretending versus Real
I am not going to discuss what is good and bad ethics — that is far beyond the limitations of a blog posting as well as completely out of the scope of this blog.
Most of you already know — some of you believe you know.
But during your next conversation of what is right and what is wrong, what is good and bad, ask the person this…
“Just what are you pretending not to know?”
If you get a blank stare, then it is safe to say that they have already lowered — or even abandoned — their ethics.
There is no hesitation when a person does not need to process a question, they already instinctively know the answer, almost in reflex.
There are some universal ethics that are prevalent in every society — whether it be a small isolate tribe in the Amazons or the crowded streets of New York City, London or New Delhi.
Ethics like you should never steal, never lie, and always be cordial.
Now let’s focus on the issues resulting from having more than one set of ethics…
There Is A Cost for Having One Set of Ethics
That cost comes in the form of your ethics being tested, most of the time without warning — to know ahead of time or to not have your ethics tested is much like trying to sharpen a knife with a sponge.
Ethics are meant to be tested — they build our character, our resolve and sharpen our focus.
Many governments suffer from corruption due to various sets of ethics and even the total lack of ethics.
No government nor sovereignty is NOT exempt from this situation — as long as there are humans, there will be corruption as some level.
Nothing can destroy the fiber or moral of a country, a business, a relationship, a family faster than finding out you’ve been lied to or the victim of extortion by someone with the ethics of a paper bag.
Forgiveness may come swiftly but the victims will not forget.
Many businessmen, like CEO Jon Huntsman, discover only after the fact that they have been involved in a form of corruption 00 in Jon’s case it was kickback scheme with a foreign government.
His mentors in the foreign country were paying a ‘fee’ to allow his business to exist and operate for the first year — Jon only discovered they had been doing this when they decided that Jon had to pay his own way.
Most would continue with business as usual, justifying it as the cost of doing business.
For Jon, he recognized his integrity was at stake and could never be corrected if he continued paying the kickbacks, especially since he gained full-knowledge of the kickbacks.
He notified his business partners, who were natives of the country, and told them flat-out that all orders were being pulled and business in that country would cease immediately.
His employees knew Jon and knew their country — they didn’t weep nor feel sorry for their country…
He left that country and never returned.
If you are not familiar with Jon Huntsman, it would do your soul some good to read his book, now in the 2nd edition, “Winners Never Cheat” (available below).
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If something does not measure up to your ethics, either challenge the situation and/or go someplace else where they are equal to your ethics.
But don’t be a hypocrite about it either — you are only setting yourself up to be totally unhappy with yourself at a later time.
No one likes a self-inflicted regret party.
Everything we do, everyone we meet or have any form of conversation of relationship will call upon our ethics at one, several or many levels.
We are also creatures of comfort and what we become comfortable doing in one area of our life, we will inevitably incorporate into another area of life.
Those that have mastered the art of separating their feelings from their actions have only stock-piled their feelings and emotions that will inevitably become heavy baggage.
It is very common to see such a person invalidate everything around them in order to validate their own self-worth, a self-worth which has basically become as valuable as junk bonds.
Are You Permitting Yourself Become Smaller Than Your Circumstances?
Birds of the same feather will flock together… hanging around with like-minded.
If you are unhappy with your station in life, are you blaming your circumstances?
Has not the history of any country, of any great challenge, proven that it is the person that is bigger than the circumstance and not the other way around?
We either submit to our circumstances or we choose to take a stand against them — only one will result in a positive change.
This mindset applies to projects and project management: what you do, who you are is very evident — not when everything is going smoothly but when there are problems and delays.
At all times, let your yes be yes, and your no be no — least you discover those that you thought were your friends are trusting your enemies.
When you waiver on the value of your word, then everything about you waivers, your value included.
Even great men have made mistakes – and it is not the mistakes that made them great, what made them great was…
- what they did to be accountable and responsible for their word
- what they did when they got back up
- with their actions
- with their intentions
- in their public life
- as well as in their private life
They knew that nothing is over, nothing fails as long as they get back up — the fall isn’t what is important, what is important is the bounce from that fall.
These are the things that made them great.
They had emotions and feelings about what they did, the same emotions and feelings we all have.
They just decided their ethics were more valuable than their circumstances…
That the circumstances will change but their ethics should remain intact…
What about you?
What do you have to add to all this?
Or even have to challenge this?
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