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What We Are Unwilling to Change? And Why?

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One of the many words of wisdom we broadcast on LinkedIn and our twitter jobs account (@hrisjobs) states simply:

What we are keeping in front of us is where we go…

and

What we tolerate, we cannot change.

In an earlier article, we discussed why we should establish and focus on only one set of ethics otherwise risk the lose of integrity, trust, and understanding from family, and friends.

Or, risk the acknowledgement we are limited and do what we can to rectify the situation.

What Makes Great Men Great

Great men and women understand this, and like anyone else will always find themselves in a calamity once their actions and decisions speak louder than their words.

At such moments, the greatest of men and women understood the need to humble themselves while the greatest fools make excuses for themselves.

Leaders and followers alike are not exempt from this principle — there have been great leaders who have been fools, but never fools who have been great leaders.

Seeds of Our Future

What we keep in front of us consists of 6 elements that are the seeds of who we become (but not necessarily who we are) and where we go…

  • what we choose to
    • focus on
    • read
    • listen to
  • who we choose to
    • idolize
    • listen to
    • whose works we choose to read

From what I have read, seen, and experienced, who we are becomes evident through our relationships in what motivates us to help another, educate another, stay with another, or depart from another… despite their or our ability to lead.


Leadership Is a Necessity

Don’t get me wrong, leadership is important — having fulfilling relationships doesn’t keep us from drifting.

But choosing who is to lead us, choosing who we are to follow is critical to any success.

How we choose who is to lead us is where we fail the most as many times this process is performed at an emotional level.

And anytime we make decisions based on emotions, most of the time we regret that decision.

We also don’t like following someone who does not have the same values, ethics, and morals that we have…

Especially values.

We Need to Educate Ourselves On Whom We Choose to Lead

But deciding who to lead us based upon our emotions will blind us to the values, ethics, and morals that is present in whom we choosing.

Many fools have attained leadership – some people can be fooled all the time, all people can be fooled some of the time, but you just can’t fool all the people, all the time.

Good ethics requires us to be unselfish – but not foolish…

Morals will follow our ethics whether those morals are selfish or unselfish, and our values will be formed by our morals.

And the more selfish our morals? History has proven we will fail to the degree of selfishness we pursue, and to the degree the number of people are being selfish…


Life, Happiness, and Dreams are Full of Differences

Values will be different for each person, each family, each community, each sovereignty — which means our morals will follow suit.

To unionize or join our values and morals under one cause has proven to only accelerate and magnify the failure…

History has also proven – and man has remained ignorant of – the failures of creating social programs that attempt to equalize everything for everyone.

Despite this, many still believe that this is necessary, that the government has to be all it can be for the people – as history and evidence has proven this to be a failure, history and evidence has also indicated they choose to still embrace this mostly because it feels right.

Yet others have seen the successes of and have experienced the beliefs that self-reliance, dependency on family, friends, community, and faith are better suited for the people.

Crossroads Are The Tests of Where We Want to Go

The current polarization in politics, in ideologies, in management, in leadership, in sovereignties, even in our personal lives, is resulting from the intensity, passion, the desire to embrace and focus on one, and deny the other.

Again, history has shown where values are allowed to find their own ground, without government intervention, morals and ethics were allowed to be tested and honed — including everything related to the pursuit of happiness.

What we have today are sovereignties, politics, and peer pressure dictating what our values should be – on the left we have those that believe the government should do this, while on the right we have those that believe the people should do this…


The Seeds of Who We Become

Who we become will be determined by

  • what we choose to
    • focus on
    • read
    • listen to
  • who we choose to
    • idolize
    • listen to
    • vote for
    • whose works we choose to support

Based on the works and results of both Presidential candidates, only one has the credentials that says his accomplishments will provide results that won’t escalate the increasing problems of the last 4 years.


The Seeds of Liberty

For any sovereign leader, we need to hold him or her responsible and accountable to…

Low unemployment

No government anywhere has ever been effective at this without letting businesses do what they need to do with minimal government intervention (and no matter how much any whines, defends, and defies this, they can’t dispute their claims with facts)

Reduced deficit

A government burdened by a debt that is greater than 30 percent of the GDP can’t protect its people, period

Reduced size of government

It is already self-evident that the larger anything is, the quicker its effectiveness diminishes (or do we have to again explain why we are paying $800 for a hammer and $1600 for a toilet???).

No matter what any government thinks, someone has to pay for the services they render.

Last we checked, money does not grow on trees and printing money to support a failing economy gas ALWAYS lead to hyperinflation – the USA is already one year into this scenario and needs only 6 to 18 months before hyperinflation kicks in, should this not be reversed before then.

Allow businesses to do what they need to do without the burden of government on their backs

Businesses have to make a profit, governments could care less; which also means businesses have to pass the cost of maintaining the imposed regulations onto their customers.

The best example of this exists in Brazil, which has a tax on everything and a charges a fee for any government service, where most goods cost from 2 to 4 times what they do in the global market..

Collect the excess currency in our financial system

Hyperinflation ALWAYS starts with an economy that has been flooded with currency (which is exactly what the Federal Reserve is doing with Obama’s blessings for nearly a year now). But collecting the excess currency has to be accompanied by all the above.

Provide an economic environment that promotes savings

The US Savings Bond used to be one of the best ways to double your money in 7 years time.

Saving for retirement should be on everyone’s plans, even when first graduating from college.

Granted, the current economic state has basically forced many to re-enter the workforce while others have looked to Latin and South America, or elsewhere, to live as expats during retirement.

But without what they have already saved, their lives would have been much worse.

Having a savings has many benefits for both the account holder as well as the community.

And communities that are doing well are more self-sufficient.

Lastly, a sovereign policy should allow its military to do what is designed to do

As opposed to acting as officials at a football game.

Tying the hands of any military only binds the power of that sovereignty.

And to bind the powers of that sovereignty only ends up forfeiting the advantage to the enemy of the State.

This policy needs to include rebuilding to the favor of the victor – remembering tHat assisting a populace that couldn’t defend themselves is entirely different from feeling sorry a people that refused to defend themselves.

Conclusion

What does all this have to do with cloud computing? ERP? HRIS? Project Management? Jobs? Recruiting? Career management?

Given the magnitude of the polarization of this election?

Everything…

Whether it be politics, work, family, our private lives, there is no avoiding what is about to happen…

What we are keeping in front us, is where we go.

What we tolerate, we cannot change.

Garrett O'Brien

With 20+ years in roles as a client executive sponsor, project management, as well as functional / technical lead, Garrett is sought for his expertise in the USA, Europe, and Brazil.

He has an extensive background in implementing multi-product, multi-line HRIS environments that provides a smoother transition from legacy to new systems.

Garrett’s previous clients include ADP, Case New Holland, Cushman & Wakefield, Honeywell International, Lubrizol, MAHLE, Sodexho USA, and many others ranging from SMB’s to the Fortune 50.

Currently, Garrett works from his home office near São Paulo, Brazil as the publisher and editor for The HRIS World publications. Also, he contributes articles for their various blogs as well as provides guest posts to several IT, Cloud, and HRIS blogs.

Garrett’s current roles involve…

• Publisher, writer, and owner of 4 leading HRIS system and career blogs which are read in 50+ countries

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• Registered partner with Microsoft, providing the latest developments on the newest technologies from Microsoft

• Council and Education Member of Gerson Lehrman Group Council, which helps institutions of the world leaders meet, engage and manage experts across a wide range of sectors and disciplines.


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